How to Enjoy Being Single
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You are getting a lot of pressure from your friends and family to “meet a nice Greek and settle down”. Not only that, but you genuinely feel that urgency yourself. You would love to meet someone special to build your life with. As a result, you do all the things you’re supposed to do so you can meet someone. In fact, trying to meet someone has become a full time job.
While it is nice to feel driven by your goal, it may also be preventing you from enjoying where you are in the present moment. Being single is not a curse or an affliction. It is a state of being. Since this is where you are right now, it makes sense to enjoy it. In fact, the more you enjoy your life, the easier it will be to attract the person with whom you are really meant to be.
Here are some tips on how to enjoy being single:
Embrace Being Social
Have you ever dragged a date or a partner to an event he or she didn’t want to attend? If so, you know first-hand that it isn’t fun. Over time, you may even have started to decline invitations to places you really wanted to go because you knew that your partner wouldn’t be up for it.
Well, now that you’re single, you don’t have to worry about that. You can go to any event or party that you want and not have to worry if someone else is having a good time. The only thing that matters is whether or not you’re having a good time.
Work on Your Goals
Being single is the ideal time to set personal and professional goals and achieve them. When you get these areas to the point where you want them to be, you will be much happier in a relationship if the opportunity does arise. If you’re happy with yourself it will make you a much better partner.
So, what kinds of goals can you set? Some examples include learning a language, losing weight, and improving your skills to put you in the running for a promotion. The nice thing about being single is that you can focus all your attention on what you want to accomplish.
Have Fun and Enjoy Life
What is it that you like to do? Chances are if you have been in a relationship in the past, you know what it feels like to do things you don’t want to do. Take advantage of being single by doing activities that you truly want to do.
This is the ideal time, for example, to pursue a hobby, go out to all your favorite hotspots, and take those vacations you’ve always dreamed of. Who knows, maybe you’ll meet someone special while pursuing your interests!
Being single isn’t anything to be ashamed of. In fact, it can be quite fun. Learning how to truly enjoy your own life is an essential step on the road to finding someone to be with. Once you are comfortable with yourself, you are more likely to attract the person you are meant to be with.
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This post was written by Greek Boston